How do we get the romance we really want?
March 24th, 2012Romance Energy Coach ~
How do we get the romance we really want? We need to learn to ask for it in ways that inspire and entice our partner.
Real romance is all about a felt connection or experience of love. Feeling loved. Feeling valued, feeling respected, feeling desired.
Romance is about making an energetic connection. Soul to soul if you like. 
How does one do this? Well that’s the trick, one can’t. It takes two and that’s why it’s such a magical space when it all comes together.
Romance takes two willing parties. It is about a beautiful exchange of positive energy, there is a giving and a receiving.
In order to give generously of ourselves from a place of fullness we need to learn to fill our own love tanks. This is an art we can practise as we go. It’s about discovering what it is we can do for ourselves that has us feel amazing, loved, alive and energised. Things that help us to discover our own natural worth like journaling and essence coaching.
In order to receive we need to be courageous enough to be vulnerable. Being open to receive can feel scary, in opening ourselves to feeling deep connection and love we risk being hurt. It’s for this reason real romance the soul to soul kind, can’t be rushed. It requires trust.
Trust is a two way street. It requires us to be strong in our own sense of self. We need to trust in our own ability to be OK no matter what another person does or doesn’t do. Trusting a partner is about knowing their heart and being able to feel safe in the knowledge that their true intentions toward you are generous and kind, in short that they truly love your essence.
Which brings us to the essence of romance; Love. Romantic Love is an art! It’s a magical space that allows us to be completely ourselves in connection to another who is being completely them self. It’s about appreciating each other’s uniqueness. And it’s in the expression of this appreciation for our partner’s uniqueness and in our allowing our partner to deeply appreciate and adore us that romance is born.
Getting to know your own heart intimately is always the place to start. Learning the art of personal journaling can make all the difference and my guide book can get you started.
When you’re really ready to deeply experience the natural power and beauty of your own inner essence an energy coaching session can guide your way. You can click here to book yourself a complimentary half hour romance coaching energy session.